How's My Serve?

"You know the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them,and their great men exercise authority over them. It is not so among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant" (Mt.20:25-26). It's not usually the concept of serving, but being treated like a servant that offends our selfish sensibilities. Lord, show me intentional ways that I can serve my spouse, children, neighbors, co-workers, and my church family.